Death of a Marriage

It is quite definitively over. I don't want to talk much about it. I do want it to stick this time. I need to find out who I am, outside of her shadow. It's been almost 4 and a half years since it all began, and it's time to move on.  I am not a good person to ask for advice about how to do this kind of thing. I'm just learning as I go. Please respect my privacy. It's as if someone died. Maybe I did......